Negative people might be from your brethren or non-relatives, irrespective of who they are, always recognize them and learn to stay far away from them.
It can be emotionally draining, just being around them, and you must be watchful because their negative attitudes and opinions are toxic and contagious.
There is no doubt that negativity perpetuates itself, breeds dissatisfaction and clutters the mind.
And when the mind is messy with negativity, happiness is hard to come by.
Here are seven things negative people will do to you
Demean Your Value
Never let anyone belittle you. Their unkind words are a reflection of their insecurities and what they wish for you to be. Trust in yourself and in who you want to be.
Stay away from people who can’t take responsibility for their actions and who makes you feel bad for being angry at them when they do you wrong.
Living by fearing what others will say, how they will say it and when they will say always make us live the life we don’t and not supposed to be living.
It’s sad how we treat each other, how will abuse and ignore people.
Destroy Your Image
At times, friends & loves ones are the one who hurt us the most.
Taking into account the nature of the relationship we have with them, some incident can leave deep wounds, threatening to uproot friendships & harm family ties, only he can help you in finding forgiveness for them.
Spreading rumors and gossip is incredibly dangerous. It destroys reputations, breaks down relationships and causes mayhem in someone’s life. It’s so prevalent today because so many have lost basic decency and wouldn’t bat an eyelid mass texting such messages. Be careful!
So teach yourself not to take revenge from people in this world whenever someone hurts you or is unjust with you always look away from this or turn them into a motive and a stepping stone. It’s just a matter of time. Treat everyone with kindness and respect.
Drive You Craze
Don’t let negative people ruin your positive mindset. Let them go before they regularly infiltrate your mind.
Such people have issues with themselves and with everything & everyone around them. Make a conscious effort to stay away from them. Don’t entertain such a friendship!
Your present situation does not determine where you can go; they purely determine where you start, so nobody should make you feel inferior without your consent. Do these when you are driven crazy by negative people
(1) be angry and
(2) let it ride.
Then focus more on people who inspire you than the people who annoy you or drive you crazily. You’ll get much further in life.
Dispose of Your Dream
Don’t feel terrible about making choices that may upset some people. You are answerable to yourself and do things that make you happy.
Occasionally, someone opens up to you never like before; showing their heart & all that comes with it: the hurts, the wounds & scars.
Honor the fact that they confided in you. It takes enormous courage to do that! Don’t betray them!
Become skilled at not to tell people more than they need to know!
Disrespect Your Imagination
Don’t have the feeling that you have to tell everyone what you’ve been up to in your life.
You don’t! Nobody needs to know everything, plan and work in silence and let your results speak for you.
Don’t pronounce it on social media too because having people with eyes that continuously pry into your private life is not healthy; It attracts envy & hatred.
You don’t have to split everything, speak, brag, argue & complain about everything. Somethings are better kept secrete, and also be careful who you share your weakness with; some people can’t wait for the opportunity to use them against YOU.
Defame Your Abilities
Gossip is a verbal poison. It seeks to defame & discredit others. It is hurtful and dangerous, and It’s the quickest way to destroy trust and friendships. Don’t take it lightly.
You may think it’s harmless, but you’re ruining someone’s reputation.
For a calm and more peaceful life, stop listening to gossip and learn to ignore what others are saying about you
Look for the good in everything, learn to be positive & spread goodness. Always remember to be grateful for your life. And let the Almighty handle everything else.
Disbelief Your Opinion
You are allowed to disagree with others, state your opinion respectfully but NEVER get physical or violent.
Think, quality make us distinct form of animals! So be civilized, listen to what others are saying but avoid knee-jerk reactions. It would save you from a whole lot of regret!
Seven Things Negative People Might Do to You Right Now
(1) your past
(3) limited belief.
Stay away from NEGATIVE people always take your time to stay away from negative people, no matter the ties you might be sharing with them